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From Accepting Abuse to Rejecting It: What Loving Myself Taught Me
There was a time I accepted abuse like it was rent — like it was just the price of having somebody around. I went from accepting abuse… to rejecting abuse. And the thing that changed wasn't him. It was me. When I began to love myself, everything shifted. WEN U LUV YOURSELF, YOU REJECT ABUSE AND ACCEPT PEACE. That's my whole testimony in one sentence. If you're still in the accepting stage, hear me: you are not hard to love. You are not too much. You are not the problem.... Read more...
Resist the Charm of the Devil: A Word for Women Dealing With Narcissists
Ladies, let me tell you something I learned the hard way. Not every charming man is a good man. Some of the smoothest talkers are just hunting — and what they're hunting is your purse, your pocketbook, your peace, your whole life. A narcissist will love-bomb you. Flowers, sweet words, “you're the only one who understands me.” And the whole time, he's studying you — learning where you keep your heart so he knows exactly where to step on it. I know. I've lived it. Here's what I need you... Read more...
Do You Care If You Die Using Drugs? Or Do You Care When Your Family Has to Bury You?
DO YOU CARE IF YOU DIE USING DRUGS? Or do you care that your family has to bury you? I love somebody right now who's choosing the drugs. And their family already cried all the tears they had. Some of y'all done gave up on them — I get it. Loving an addict will break your heart in places you didn't know could break. But let me ask you something real. If you died tonight — overdose, bad batch, whatever — who finds you? Who gets that 3 AM phone... Read more...